Monday, 16 November 2015

At the end ...


... and, at the end, Mr.Bangio has gone


I had to open my hand, and let him go


I took him to the vet and, in my arms, little by little he got asleep


And, silently, died.


I did it for love, just for love
with broken heart.


All of a sudden I felt the frost of winter ...
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38 comments:

  1. Suzanne16 November 2015 at 14:38

    How terribly sad.

    I am sure you are heatbroken.

    Hugs to you and your family at your time of loss.

    bisous
    Suzanne

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  2. Shybiker16 November 2015 at 14:46

    I'm so, so sorry. Saying goodbye to our beloved pets is always hard. My sympathies.

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    1. dan17 November 2015 at 00:21

      Pets are special beingsand that is why saying goodbye to them is so hard. You are a sensitive person ... many thanks ...

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  3. Kathy16 November 2015 at 16:43

    I am so sorry, Daniela.

    Right now I'm sitting next to my cat -- my sweet girl has had several vet visits and many tests the last few days and is not eating now. I hope we will be as brave as you and Mr. Bangio.

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    1. dan17 November 2015 at 00:26

      I had to be brave ... I couldn't bear to see him suffer. I wish all the best for your little friend ...

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  4. The Elle Diaries16 November 2015 at 17:26

    I am so sorry Dan, How heartbreaking! You did the right thing if it is any solace, a suffering animal is to sad.
    I did the same thing with my dog, a King Charles who had heart failure...I feel for you. Hang in there. Sending love..What a beautiful post.
    xx, Elle
    http://www.mydailycostume.com

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    1. dan17 November 2015 at 00:33

      I am feeling much love around me! I really appreciate your words ...

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  5. Anonymous16 November 2015 at 18:34

    Oh, gosh. I did the same thing with my dog of 15 years two days ago. I am heartbroken. I read Greetja's blog which just recently led me to you; I am in the United States. Sending strength and warmth to you across the miles. i too am living your pain.

    Mel

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    1. dan17 November 2015 at 00:37

      You have written a beautiful comment, Mel and I really thank you...
      Do you believe? My dog was more or less 15 ... I can understand your feelings ...

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    2. Anonymous20 November 2015 at 15:44

      I know exactly what you are feeling, and am in the same space of loss and yet relieved she is not suffering. I am thinking of you, new friend.
      Mel

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    3. dan23 November 2015 at 13:50

      I am glad to share my grief with people who can understand! Many thanks and welcome to my blog ...

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  6. Andrea16 November 2015 at 20:32

    I am so sorry for your loss, Dan.

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  7. Sue @ A Colourful Canvas16 November 2015 at 23:02

    Oh dear Dan. I'm so very sorry for your loss. There are never the right words for times like this, but please feel wrapped in a cyber hug from me. And let's think of Mr. Bangio flying free on the wings of an angel.

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    1. dan18 November 2015 at 04:28

      It's sweet to think of Mr. Bangio without pain in the sky ... I can feel your cyber hug ... thanks, Sue!

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  8. Olga Rani16 November 2015 at 23:13

    Oh, so sad...I can imagine how heart breaking it was for you...

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    1. dan18 November 2015 at 04:47

      It was a very sad weekend ... thanks, Olga ...

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  9. Jill James17 November 2015 at 02:04

    I am so sorry you have farewelled your faithful friend, he will be so missed. You are in my thoughts Dan.

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  10. Jodie's Touch of Style17 November 2015 at 08:05

    Ooooh Dan....I know you are so heartbroken....It's such a hard time of life to say goodbye to our beloved pets.

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    1. dan19 November 2015 at 06:08

      The illness of my dog completely took me by surprise and it took him away so quickly ... many thanks, Jodie ...

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  11. No Fear of Fashion17 November 2015 at 08:41

    I cannot read your post without crying. So sad.
    Greetje

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    1. No Fear of Fashion17 November 2015 at 08:58

      Well, that first comment of mine is not going to help you... On the other hand I feel no words can help you really. No doubt Vincenzo will do what he can, but such grief will only ease by living through it, by time passing. You are in my heart. As you know.

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    2. dan19 November 2015 at 06:26

      On the contrary, Greetje! All the kind comments I received helped me very much ... I could share my grief and feel much love around me ...

      I really appreciate every word you wrote to me and every time I smiled thinking of you, so ... thanks!

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  12. ccjach17 November 2015 at 18:45

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I had my cat Peter for 20 years and had to make the same decision. We still miss him . . .

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    1. dan19 November 2015 at 06:30

      Many thanks Ccjach for your comment and for sharing you loss with me ... I understand your feelings ...

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  13. Beauty Unearthly17 November 2015 at 22:40

    I am so sorry for your loss too(

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  14. Flo18 November 2015 at 03:59

    I am so sorry to hear this, it is never an easy decision. (((HUGS)))

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    1. dan19 November 2015 at 06:34

      It was a drama for me, but I had no other chance ... thank you dear!

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  15. Rebecca18 November 2015 at 08:08

    So sad - I feel such sympathy for your loss. Mr. Bangio was truly loved and his passing must be devastating to you and your husband.

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    1. dan19 November 2015 at 06:41

      Yes, Rebecca. I really loved Mr. Bangio. He has been a faithful friend for 15 years ...

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  16. Nancy's Fashion Style23 November 2015 at 10:54

    Oh thats awfull. I know how it feels. So terrible sad.
    www.fashionandfoodandotherstuff.com

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  17. Nancy's Fashion Style23 November 2015 at 11:04

    Oh thats awfull. I know how it feels. So terrible sad.
    www.fashionandfoodandotherstuff.com

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  18. carmen27 November 2015 at 09:05

    My dear Dan! This is such a heartfelt post! Very moving and a beautiful memorial for your beloved Mr. Bangio! You will always miss him, but may the happy memories be a treasure never forgotten!

    A BIG HUG!!
    ♥ carmen

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    1. dan1 December 2015 at 11:04

      I am so happy to read your comment, Carmen! I know how much you love animals ...

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